"Six Ways to Make People Like You"

Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people.

Rule 2: Smile

Rule 3: Remember Names

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Rule 5:

Rule 6:

1. Become genuinely interested in other people,

One way to become genuinely interested in other people is to find someone who you don't know or don't talk to, whom you think might be an interesting person that you could see yourself hanging out with and try talking to them. If you try to learn about some of the things they like, you'd be surprised at how much you might also like them. If you make an effort to understand the person and try to listen or relate to them they might also do the same with you. This doesn't have to apply to one person specifically you could try this with a whole new group of people who you like. I think most people would appreciate someone trying to understand them and trying to be their friend as long as you don't try to hard. Listening to what they are really saying also helps because most people like to be heard. Also don't talk too much about yourself or other people won't think you're that interested in them. Becoming interested in other people isn't just about trying to its also about liking a person not because you want or need more friends it's also about, just liking someone because you find them interesting. Becoming interested in other people isn't that easy and other might be interested in you, it's important that both of you are trying. Most people even if you think they might be boring can actually be quite interesting, some of the things you don't know about them can actually be kind of cool. I will personally try to apply this way into my daily life as often as i can to like a person and have them like me.

   


2. Smile, what i think this rule means is that your actions and emotions speak louder than words. Some people would appreciate positive people who have a great attitude instead of negative people. People don't usually want to be around negative people, people who complain or have a bad attitude because it might bring down their mood or just bother them. If you want people to like you being mean, mad, sad, or annoying is not going to help. The way you carry yourself and present yourself to the world is exactly what people see and if you want someone to like you that matters, as long as you don't change yourself . Being yourself might be the most important part to making friends and having people like you, they have to like your personality, if they don't really know you they don't really like you. Some ways you can apply this new way is to make eye-contact and smile when you speak to people or when they speak to you it is very important to seem interested and look like you care even if you do or don't. Also body language smiling is an important part of that because people judge you as soon as they see you and if you seem uninterested or look unfriendly they might be less likely to talk to you or want to be friends with you. Even if you don't feel like smiling force yourself to smile because it shows that you won't be such a negative person and if you don't care about smiling you still might find someone who doesn't care either and you can be friends with them. In a way smiling is an important way to make friends and an easy one.

3. Remember Names, this way is very important because it shows that you at least know who someone is and that at least remember. Some people might be offended if you don't remember but if you've at least met them more than once it shouldn't be that hard to remember. Especially if you've never met them or spoke to them before but you still know their name for some reason they might really appreciate that. Some people might not care if you remember or not but it does feel better when someone knows who you are. You can apply this way anywhere there are people and this can be a pretty easy way to make friends or make someone like you if you talk to them and at least act interested in them. You can apply this way every day maybe talk to someone new who you don't know well and you want them as a new friend. The most important way of making someone like you is to be interested int them even if you are not try anyway because its an easy way to make someone like you and people like to feel like you care. If someone you knew very well and remembered a lot about them didn't remember your name that might make you feel invisible or like they don't really care about you. Remembering names is the first and easiest way to start making someone like you because it shows the simplist sign of interest in a person. One way to apply this way is to try to remember your coworkers name or your classmates name is a good way to start.

5. Talk in terms of the other man's interest, this way, means to talk about things they are interested in find out what they like and try to become interested in those things. To find out what they like you have to use an important step being active listening listening to someone is very important to get to know them. Most of what they say or like might actually interest you if you really try to listen and care. If they see that you are really listening and you might have something in common they might find a way to like you even more. Even if you act like you are interested in them they will really apreciate that and might try to become interested in you. They might also put some effort into getting to know you if they like you and think you do the same. Bonding with someone over the same likes or even dislikes can really improve your relationship as well as also giving you a new skill. Most people like to have friends they have things in common with and they like to feel like someone is listening or even understands them. This way is a very helpful way to make new friends and can be used in your daily life by asking the right questions.

6. Make the other person feel important-and do it sincerely, feeling important or feeling like you matter is a good feling which makes it a good way to make new friends. This way can be as easy as rememberin g someones birthday or doing something nice that they will appreciate. It could be more difficult like doing something they like even if  you don't like it, could make them feel  special. If you make them feel important then they might make you feel important, and it might make you feel better. Do this way sincerely meaning do it becuse you want to and because you care for that person not because you want to look nice. This way cant make you a best friend if you do it right if you remember things about them and you both feel you can trust each other and if you both remember the important things about each other. People like to feel important or that someone cares about them it's nice to have friends that care. It might help to put some effort into knowing someone so you know the things they like.